Healing after a Break up!

[Muriel Blanc]

August 11, 2014 GOD'S LIVING BIBLE - THE THIRD TESTAMENT - GOD'S NEW REVELATIONS -
The Gospel of Messiah-Healer-Seer Muriel Gaëlle (Sofia) -
Healing After A break up!

(God With Messiah-Healer-Seer Muriel Gaëlle (Sofia) through The Holy Spirit)

Many might not know this about me but I was married for 10 years to my husband and we have known each other for 5 years prior to our marriage! We also had 3 children together. When it came time to make a decision to divorce him, I did it without looking back. I went thru all the motions, the crying, the anger, the frustration of raising three children on my own, the financial struggle, working 70 hours a week as a mental health counselor for juvenile delinquents and being on call 24 on 7, the fear of not being able to provide for my children, the fear of being too tired to function properly. You name it I went thru them all.

What kept me going, my children, my Faith in God and the wonderful friends God sent me along the way to support me and to lighten up my load. My friend Annette came to my home and did laundry for me often as well as my groceries here and there, my friend Lisa watch my kids and took me out to do mother and kids’ stuff.

My husband got remarried one week after our divorced was finalized and official. I, on the other end chose to work on myself to heal fully and that took quite a while.

The first step was to let go completely then to let go of the guilt as if I done this or that differently, then to forgive myself for all the mistakes I might have made and then to forgive my ex-husband then the final stage was to wish him well with my thoughts and to remove all karmic ties within the violet flame. My divorce as painful as it was, was necessary for my personal growth. I learned thru the whole process who I am as a woman, as a mother, as a counselor, as a spiritual guide, as a healer.

Now most women can be fine by themselves for very long time. Unfortunately most men are not like that. Most men are afraid to be alone so they go from one woman to another or claim to love one and the other in few days span, then if the couple is just separated, many go back to their ex girl friend or wives.

It can takes weeks, months, and years to let go and to heal as you have to go thru all the range of emotions! Allow yourself to be on your own, to decide the life or partner you want to have. Take the time to self-reflect!

Being spiritually close to God, Angels or Ascended Masters, is not enough, as you still have to go thru the internal process so you don’t repeat the same lessons over and over!

Whether you are a man or a woman, healing must take place before you consider being with someone else. If you don’t, then you will attract the wrong partner as your vibration is lower in time of stress. If you chose to go from one partner to another and back to your ex, it means simply that you are afraid of letting go, afraid of the unknown, afraid of making a decision, also in that case you are only thinking about yourself and not the other person feelings or emotion!. You must close the door spiritually, emotionally, physically, so you can be with the right person if that is what you want!.

Believe me, God will support you in your journey in more ways than you can imagine. Sometimes you just have to take a Leap of Faith!

AMEN